Homework. The bane of all existence for so many
parents, especially mothers who sit down with their kids, night after night,
muddling through the barrage of worksheets and tears; flashcards and arguments.
Does
this sound familiar?
For
children with special needs, homework can be even more traumatic, challenging
and down right unbearable. Although research
is clearly stating that homework has little
impact on standardized scores or as a measure of ability, schools around
the world are still doling out assignments that parallel an antiquated
approach.
By
today’s definition and what best
practice dictates, homework, if assigned, should be a reinforcement of
previously learned skills. Although I
could argue a case for eliminating homework in elementary school all together,
by and large, if assigned, it should be a relatively independent time for
students to understand the concept of responsibility and task completion.
The truth is that there is almost no evidence that
homework helps elementary school students achieve academic success and little
more that it helps older students. Yet the nightly burden is taking a serious
toll on America's families. It robs children of the sleep, play, and exercise
time they need for proper physical, emotional, and neurological development.
And it is a hidden cause of the childhood obesity epidemic, creating a nation
of "homework potatoes."
Homework
is not supposed to be an extension of the school day where facts and content
have to be re-taught to the student by the parent or caregiver. In addition, although many schools do issue
homework policies that state a set time that should be dedicated to homework,
parents are finding the assigned tasks take much longer than a teacher may
anticipate. “We don’t have the same
classroom structure in the home and because it is a more relaxed atmosphere,
sometimes I think the teachers underestimate how much time it takes to do some
of this work,” states a mother from the U.S. who has two daughters in
elementary school. “In addition,” she
states, “because we have two kids in two different grade levels, it takes
longer to work with each one and often re-teach concepts, all while folding
laundry and making dinner.”
“We
also have a lot of after school activities,” states a mother with three boys,
in grades Kindergarten through 5th.
“I have clipboards in the car so they can try to do their homework while
we drive to games and activities. I am
often yelling out the answers just so they can get it done. It’s horrible.”
I
recently spoke with a mother of a child who is very smart and also has ADHD
(Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) therefore it is not only difficult
to focus on a single task for very long, but he is constantly needing to move
and fidget. His mother stated that she
typically has to dedicate anywhere from 2-3 hours a night on her son’s
homework. Although she was told the
content has already been covered in school, it is likely that his difficulty
with attention has kept him from comprehending it to the level of independence
when it comes to homework. One night, in
particular, as they entered into the 3rd hour of homework where the
two of them were “at each other’s throats,” she wrote to the teacher, “After three hours we decided to stop. He has worked very hard but we couldn’t get
it done.” The teacher returned the
work the next day as “incomplete” and made the child stay in for recess to
finish the assignment. This child, who
needs to move, run and get his body physically regulated on a consistent basis,
was deprived recess which is arguably the most important part of his day. “I just don’t know what to do anymore,” the
mother said, “I want to support my son, but this situation is impacting our
relationship and his confidence.”
It
doesn’t matter how many times I hear these kinds of stories, and I hear them a
lot. Homework modification is one of the
single easiest accommodations a school can make to help a child succeed. Here were my suggestions I made to the
mother:
- Hold a meeting with the school to discuss the philosophy of homework and that she expects it to be individualized towards her son, if not to everyone else in the class.
- This philosophy should include individualized homework that reflects work that he has already mastered and would serve as an independent reinforcement of such skills.
- The homework should take no more than 20 minutes for him to complete in addition to the 20 minutes of quiet reading assigned. (See the “10 minute rule” link below)
- If he is unable to complete the homework independently, but tried, mom will mark the top with a STAR, signifying to the teacher that he worked for 20 minutes independently and couldn’t do the work. This would indicate to the teacher that the assignment was too difficult (what great data!)
- If he simply chooses not to the homework or is irresponsible with committing himself to it, mom would mark an “X” on the top of the page signifying a consequence should be issued because he did not complete the homework due to a behavior. However, because of his disability, he should not be kept in from recess. An alternative consequence must be issued. (It’s amazing how creative teachers and parents can be when they get into a “think tank” kind of meeting!)
As a
teacher, I understand fully the challenges with individualizing homework for
each child, however as true differentiation is the only ethical way to teach
our diverse students, the issue shouldn’t be IF the teacher can do it but HOW
can she do it.
As
far as homework goes, as the teacher I would, in advance, plan assignments in
three levels: Homework assignments for those
who exceed the standards, those who meet the standards and those who are near
the standards. There are so many parent
volunteers willing to make copies and organize such work. Take advantage of the help and be empowered
to commit to a relatively simple but effective differentiation technique.
Now…I
just have to say this. Although
eliminating homework all together in elementary school and advocating for a set
amount of reading time daily seems like a long shot, it is another idea
that could silence all this debate once and for all.
…and
the sound of silence…is so nice, isn’t it?
Resources:
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“The 10-Minute Rule for Homework” http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/yourlife/parenting-family/2011-08-09-homework-tips_n.htm